What I want to share in this blog is most important in this day and age. I cannot, in a short amount of space, give enough information or help concerning lost hope. I would highly recommend reading Philip Yancey's book, "Where Is God When It Hurts" to gain a better picture of just what pain and suffering are all about. I do know this, God never intended for pain and suffering to be a part of our lives, but because of our free will and the choices we make in life we all will experience some degree of pain and suffering in our lifetime. Not all pain and suffering comes from a decision we make, many times we experience it just because we are part of the human race in a fallen state living in a fallen world. What makes the difference is how we look at our situation.
Are you sensing the world around you is caving in and there doesn't seem to be any escape? Maybe you are in a situation where it seems that no one else cares about you or what you are going through, or your job has just been eliminated and your finances are gone. Maybe you are the one lying in a hospital bed because of some dreaded disease and the doctor has informed you that there is nothing else that can be done. You may be in some part of the world where there is nothing but warfare, destruction, and abuse and you are wondering if this is all there is to life. You may be facing a family crisis where everything seems to be out of control and nothing seems to make sense anymore. You have lost hope and faith in what you thought was the answer to your problems and now all you have left is depression, anxiety and possibly despair. Let me take you on a short journey that may bring you back from the deep pit you are in and give you the hope you need to see your way out of your situation.
You see it does not matter what you are going through, everyone can find themselves in what seems a hopeless situation. What matters is how one manages the situation they are in. You can either look at the dark side of things and focus on the pain and suffering or you can look for light and focus on that ray of hope that is there. Lets look at a couple of people who found themselves in a very difficult place. Like most, when faced with a difficult situation we all at times will begin asking questions like, "Why Me?," "What Is God Trying To Tell Me?," "What Did I Do Wrong?," or maybe we just blame everyone else, you may even be blaming God for what has happened.
Mary Verghese is a person that faced such difficulty. Dr. Brand is a doctor who has worked with leprosy patients for years. He is a leading person in the revelation as to why pain is so important. You see, Leprosy is a disease that attacks the pain system, leprosy patients lose any sense to pain. That is why they lose fingers, toes, and other parts, they feel no pain. Mary Verghese was one of his most famous patients according to Philip Yancey who wrote the book, "Where Is God When It Hurts." She did not have leprosy though, Mary Verghese was a patient from the result of a tragic car accident. Mary was a promising young physician working with Dr. Brand when the accident happened. Here is the account given from Philip Yancey's book "Where is God When it Hurts."
"After the accident Mary lay motionless at the bottom of a bank where the car landed. Her face was slit in a deep gash from cheekbone to chin. Her lower limbs dangled uselessly, like two sticks of wood." Mary went through a long recovery time in temperatures reaching 110 degrees outside, "the hospital room was sweltering and she lay in traction, wrapped in a perspex jacket and plastic brace. She faced hours on end of physical therapy and nurses continually checked for sensation, each week she would fail, never feeling the pinpricks on her legs. Dr. Brand had observed her spiraling down and losing hope. While visiting her room one day he said this to her, "Mary," he began, "I think it's time to begin thinking of your professional future as a doctor."
To make a long story short, Mary began her journey towards accomplishing her professional career. How did she do this? It all started with her focus. Instead of focusing on her condition, she focused on the 'how' she would be able to relate to other patients with a unique quality of sympathy and understanding. Mary continued to work for improvement and eventually headed up a new department at the Physiotherapy School in Vellore, India.
Philip Yancey says this about Mary.
"Mary stands as an outstanding example of a person who got nowhere asking why a tragedy happened. But as she turned toward God and asked "to what end," she learned to trust him to weave a new design for her life. Mary Verghese probably achieved more because of her accident than if it would not have occurred."
Lets look at one other individual and see how adversity affected him. We will find this person in the scriptures. From 2 Corinthians 11:23-27 we find Paul, a servant of Christ, relating to the Corinthians his hardships. (please read his account by clicking on the above scripture). Paul is one like many who suffered a great deal and had every reason to be depressed or even want to give up. Like Mary Verghese, Paul had an outlook that focused not on his predicament but focused beyond his pain and suffering by asking "To What End" is this time for. Mary suffered because of someone else's mistake yet was able to overcome the suffering and help others because of her disabled body. Paul choose to follow Christ and suffered immensely for that decision, yet he continually battled through the beatings, prison, shipwrecks, lost at sea, ridicule, etc. to continue spreading the gospel because he focused on the rewards and made it known that this life on earth is only temporary and soon the pain and suffering will not only be over, but forgotten.
You may be suffering from depression or maybe have found yourself in a hospital room facing the prospect of leaving this earth sooner than you expected, maybe you are struggling through some disease that has taken a toll on you physically and you no longer have the use of your body as you once knew it. Maybe you have reached a point where you feel hope has left you and there is just nothing left, no direction, no happiness, no one cares and you feel absolutely useless. If you have found yourself in a tough place and you just want to crawl in hole somewhere I want you to know that there is hope. First, you must start telling yourself just that, there is hope, then take steps to find some positive things to focus on, stop asking "why me" ask "To What End." Talk to someone that is positive and a good listener. The one person I know that will not turn a deaf ear is Jesus Christ. If you already believe in Him then turn to Him and share your hurts, get a bible and start reading some of the Psalms. If you do not know Him then you need to right now. Pray this prayer, "God, I need you, I ask for forgiveness of my sins. I need Jesus in my life today, would you help me to know your Son. Amen." If you believe Jesus Christ is the only Son of God and believe He came and died for our sins then tell God this because Jesus is the only way to God. John 14:6, "Jesus answered, I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." When you do this you are being born again and a new life will stand before you. God will do a work in your soul and spirit to bring about that new life if you let Him.
Now let me share one last piece from Philip Yancey's book, "Where Is God When It Hurts?" (I would suggest getting a copy of this book and begin reading it).
Where is God when it hurts? He has been there from the beginning, designing a pain system that, even in the midst of a fallen world, still bears the stamp of his genius and equips us for life on this planet. He transforms pain, using it to teach and strengthen us, if we allow it to turn us toward him. With great restraint, He watches this rebellious planet live on, in mercy allowing the human project to continue in its self-guided way. He lets us cry out, like Job, in loud fits of anger against Him, blaming Him for a world we spoiled. He allies himself with the poor and suffering, founding a kingdom tilted in their favor. He stoops to conquer. He promises supernatural help to nourish the spirit, even if our physical suffering goes unrelieved. He has joined us. He has hurt and bled and cried and suffered. He has dignified for all time those who suffer, by sharing their pain. He is with us now, ministering to us through His Spirit and through members of His body who are commissioned to bear us up and relieve our suffering for the sake of the head. He is waiting, gathering the armies of good. One day He will unleash them and the world will see one last terrifying moment of suffering before the full victory is ushered in. Then, God will create for us a new, incredible world. And pain shall be no more.
Look at 1 Corinthians 15:51-55, notice that there is something far greater than we can imagine coming soon. We have hope in Jesus Christ, but, we must place our entire trust in Him alone. He came to give us life and through His death, burial and resurrection He brought to us a way back to what we seek the most, a relationship with our Heavenly Father. Whatever you do in this life, "look up, for your redemption draws near," Luke 21:28.
Click on the scriptures below or better yet, look them up in your bible and underline them, and read them over and over. There are many more scriptures on hope so spend some time looking them up. These are God's Word to you.
There are different kinds of pain we may face in our lives, but no matter what kind of suffering we may go through, there is always hope. When you are in a dark tunnel and the light has gone out on you, do not focus on the darkness, focus on that very small light way down at the end of the tunnel and take a step towards it, then, take another step. Keep doing this until the light has grown in size and you can see your way clearly to the end of the tunnel. The light you search for is Christ who said "I have come as a light to shine in this dark world, so that all who put their trust in me will no longer remain in the dark." John 12:46
May God bless you richly and keep you in His loving arms through these difficult times. God loves you to no end and He demonstrated it through His Son, Jesus Christ.
May God bless you richly and keep you in His loving arms through these difficult times. God loves you to no end and He demonstrated it through His Son, Jesus Christ.